Back-to-School Speech & Language Tips: Helping Your Child Communicate With Confidence
Back-to-school season is here! New teachers, new classrooms, new friends, and new routines can be excitingâbut they also place new communication demands on children.
From following a teacherâs directions and answering questions to telling a friend about their weekend, speech and language skills are an important part of everyday success at school.
For some children, the beginning of a new school year is also when parents start noticing speech or language difficulties that werenât as obvious during the summer.
At Essex Therapy, a pediatric speech therapy practice serving families throughout West Essex and surrounding areas of New Jersey, we want parents to know what to look forâand how to support communication at home as children head back to school.
Here are some simple ways to build speech and language skills into your familyâs new school-year routine.
Ask Better Questions About the School Day
You pick your child up from school and ask:
âHow was your day?â
The answer?
âGood.â
Sound familiar?
Try asking questions that require your child to recall specific information and organize their thoughts.
Instead of âHow was school?â try:
What was the funniest thing that happened today?
Who did you sit next to?
What did you do at recess?
Tell me one thing your teacher taught you.
Was anything hard today?
What was your favorite part of the day?
What happened first when you got to school?
These conversations arenât just a way to learn about your childâs day. They can help practice expressive language, vocabulary, sequencing, memory, and storytelling skills.
For younger children, make questions simpler or provide choices: âDid you play outside or inside today?â
Turn Homework and Reading Into Language Practice
Back-to-school usually means getting back into a reading routine.
When reading together, occasionally stop and talk about whatâs happening rather than simply finishing the book.
Ask questions such as:
âWhat do you think will happen next?â
âWhy did the character do that?â
âHow do you think she feels?â
âWhat happened at the beginning?â
âCan you tell me the story in your own words?â
These questions help strengthen skills children use in the classroom, including reading comprehension, vocabulary, inferencing, sequencing, and narrative language.
You donât need to ask a question on every page. Keep reading enjoyable and conversational.
Practice School Directions at Home
Think about how many directions a child hears during one school day:
âPut your folder away, take out your pencil, and sit on the carpet.â
Following multi-step directions requires a child to listen, understand the language, remember the information, and then complete the steps.
You can practice this naturally at home.
Try:
âGet your backpack, put your lunchbox inside, and bring it to the door.â
Or turn it into a game:
âFind something red, put it under the table, and then come give me a high five.â
Simon Says, scavenger hunts, cooking, crafts, and obstacle courses are all fun ways to work on listening and following directions without making it feel like homework.
Practice Asking for Help
One of the most valuable communication skills a child can bring into the classroom is knowing how to ask for what they need.
Before school, practice phrases such as:
âCan you help me?â
âCan you say that again?â
âI donât understand.â
âCan you show me?â
âCan I have a turn?â
âI didnât hear the directions.â
For younger children, functional words and short phrases such as âhelp,â âopen,â âmore,â âmy turn,â and âall doneâ can be incredibly useful.
When children have the language to communicate what they need, they may be better able to participate and advocate for themselves throughout the school day.
Talk About Making Friends
Communication isnât limited to academics.
A huge part of going back to school is navigating friendships.
Children may need to figure out how to introduce themselves, enter a game, ask someone to play, take turns, handle disagreements, or respond when another child doesnât want to play.
Try role-playing situations like:
âTwo kids are playing a game at recess. What could you say if you wanted to join?â
Or:
âSomeone new sits next to you at lunch. What could you say to them?â
You can even practice conversation starters:
âWhatâs your name?â
âWhat do you like to play?â
âCan I play too?â
Practicing ahead of time can make these situations feel more familiar when they happen at school.
Practice Speech Sounds During Your School Routine
If your child is already working on articulation or specific speech sounds, you donât necessarily need another activity added to your evening.
Instead, find opportunities during routines youâre already doing.
Practice speech sounds while:
A child practicing the /k/ sound, for example, might find words such as coat, car, cup, cookie, key, or cat throughout the day.
Short, successful practice opportunities can add up.
Give Your Child Time to Talk
Some children need more time to process a question and formulate an answer.
When your child is talking, resist the urge to immediately finish the sentence, correct every mistake, or ask another question.
Ask your questionâand wait.
A few extra seconds can give your child the opportunity to organize their thoughts and communicate independently.
Back to School: When Should Parents Consider a Speech Evaluation?
The beginning of the school year is often when parents begin comparing what theyâre hearing and seeing at home with the demands their child is facing in the classroom.
You may want to speak with a speech-language pathologist (SLP) if your child:
Is difficult for teachers, classmates, or unfamiliar adults to understand
Frequently becomes frustrated when trying to communicate
Has difficulty following directions
Struggles to answer or ask age-appropriate questions
Has difficulty telling stories or explaining what happened
Has trouble producing certain speech sounds
Stutters or shows tension while speaking
Has difficulty interacting or communicating with peers
Uses fewer words or shorter sentences than expected
Avoids speaking because communicating feels difficult
A speech and language evaluation can provide more information about your childâs individual strengths and needs and help determine whether speech therapy is appropriate.
Does My Child Need Private Speech Therapy If They Receive Speech at School?
This is another common back-to-school question.
School-based speech therapy and private speech therapy serve different purposes. A child may receive services through school, private therapy, or sometimes both depending on their individual needs.
Some families choose private speech therapy because they would like additional individualized treatment, increased therapy frequency, or support for communication needs that may not qualify for school-based services.
Private therapy can also allow treatment to occur in environments where children naturally communicate.
Pediatric Speech Therapy in West Essex, NJ
At Essex Therapy, we know that getting children to another appointment after school isnât always easy.
Thatâs why we provide mobile pediatric speech and language therapy, bringing individualized services to children in familiar environments such as their home or daycare.
Essex Therapy serves families throughout West Essex and surrounding communities, including Caldwell, West Caldwell, North Caldwell, Fairfield, Roseland, and nearby areas.
Services may address areas such as:
Speech sound and articulation difficulties
Phonological disorders
Childhood apraxia of speech
Expressive and receptive language
Late talking and early language development
Fluency and stuttering
Social communication
Concerned About Your Childâs Speech or Language This School Year?
You donât have to wait until parent-teacher conferences to ask questions about your childâs communication.
If youâve noticed that your child is difficult to understand, struggling to express themselves, having trouble following directions, or becoming frustrated when communicating, Essex Therapy is here to help.
Contact us to learn more about pediatric speech and language evaluations and therapy services in the West Essex, New Jersey area.